Dropdown selected interactive states

Description

Currently a selected option has the same appearance at rest and hover. We can make the interactions clearer by updating the interactive states.

Icon colour also darkens to maintain contrast.

Follows on from gitlab-org/gitlab-services/design.gitlab.com#1676 (closed)

Figma file

View design specs in Figma →

Checklist

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1. Assign the correct component label to this issue.
2. Create an MR with the additions or updates needed.
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7. When applicable, create an issue in Pajamas using the "Figma update" issue template to update the Figma UI Kit. Ping a designer on your team for awareness and bring the issue to your team planning meeting for prioritization and scheduling.
8. When introducing a major or breaking change, communicate the changes within the Engineering Week in Review.
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