Draft: Adjust anchor for "Trainee Maintainer" link and create SSOT for traintainer tools

Why is this change being made?

In !109439 (merged) we've changed the title from "Trainee maintainer" to "Learning to be a maintainer". This MR fixes all links pointing to the old anchor.

Done via

  sed -i 's/#trainee-maintainer)/#learning-to-be-a-maintainer)/g' $(rg -l "#trainee-maintainer\)")

This MR also adds a SSOT for traintainer tasks.

Refs !109439 (diffs, comment 1083546451).

Screenshots

https://pl-trainee-maintainer.about.gitlab-review.app/handbook/tools-and-tips/index.html#trainee-maintainer-issue-upkeep	https://pl-trainee-maintainer.about.gitlab-review.app/handbook/engineering/workflow/code-review/#learning-to-be-a-maintainer

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