Update handbook to include sdlc icons

Why is this change being made?

Updates to our sdlc icons and the guidelines around using them

While here I also

• Moved the duplicated iconography section and merged it with the new iconography section.
• Moved the illustration library links from the icon section to the illustration section.

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