Set `max_old_space_size` option of node to 3.5GB during compile:assets

What does this MR do?

Set max_old_space_size option of node to 3.5GB during compile:assets

Are there points in the code the reviewer needs to double check?

Is this the best way to set the node option?

Why was this MR needed?

In order to prevent OOM errors in EE build (see e.g. here: https://gitlab.com/gitlab-org/gitlab-ee/-/jobs/73954453

Does this MR meet the acceptance criteria?

• Changelog entry added, if necessary
• Documentation created/updated
• API support added
• Tests added for this feature/bug
• Conform by the code review guidelines
  • Has been reviewed by a UX Designer
  • Has been reviewed by a Frontend maintainer
  • Has been reviewed by a Backend maintainer
  • Has been reviewed by a Database specialist
• Conform by the merge request performance guides
• Conform by the style guides
• If you have multiple commits, please combine them into a few logically organized commits by squashing them
• Internationalization required/considered
• End-to-end tests pass (package-and-qa manual pipeline job)

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