Update grpc gem to v1.54.2

What does this MR do and why?

This fixes a number of Ruby 3.1 and 3.2 issues. It also fixes a GitLab build issue on ArchLinux: https://bugs.archlinux.org/task/78379

Release notes:

• https://github.com/grpc/grpc/releases/tag/v1.43.0
• https://github.com/grpc/grpc/releases/tag/v1.44.0
• https://github.com/grpc/grpc/releases/tag/v1.45.0
• https://github.com/grpc/grpc/releases/tag/v1.46.0
• https://github.com/grpc/grpc/releases/tag/v1.47.0
• https://github.com/grpc/grpc/releases/tag/v1.48.0
• https://github.com/grpc/grpc/releases/tag/v1.49.0
• https://github.com/grpc/grpc/releases/tag/v1.50.0
• https://github.com/grpc/grpc/releases/tag/v1.51.0
• https://github.com/grpc/grpc/releases/tag/v1.52.0
• https://github.com/grpc/grpc/releases/tag/v1.53.0
• https://github.com/grpc/grpc/releases/tag/v1.54.0

Full diff: https://github.com/grpc/grpc/compare/v1.42.0..v1.54.2

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