Do not run notify-package-and-test-failure on sec

What does this MR do and why?

Backport of !121605 (merged). This will update the CI rules so we don't get the package-and-test failure discussions opening on the security project. We are backporting to the versions in the current security release (16.0, 15.11, 15.10).

Related to gitlab-com/gl-infra/delivery#4420 (closed)

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• This MR is backporting a bug fix, documentation update, or spec fix, previously merged in the default branch.
• The original MR has been deployed to GitLab.com (not applicable for documentation or spec changes).
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