GitLab for Jira app - add info for opening up self-managed instances

What does this MR do?

Our docs mention that we must allow inbound/outbound connections between GitLab and Jira. However we don't provide any details on best practices here.

I've added some recommendations to our docs.

Please note for the reverse proxy recommendation, I have not explicitly added details on how to set this up. This is because reverse proxies are an external component to GitLab, and I did not want to imply that we support it.

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