Remove usage of allow_conflicts parameter

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Remove usage of allow_conflicts parameter

merge_to_ref's allow_conflicts parameter already defaults to false, and is no longer going to be used going forward. Let's remove references to it.

gitaly#5349 (comment 1436918933) details the decision to remove this parameter.

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