Draft: Disconnect only removed hosts while refreshing LB hosts

What does this MR do and why?

Instead of disconnecting all old hosts on refreshing the LB host_list, this aims to only disconnect the ones which are not needed anymore (not part of the new hosts from consul).

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Related to #423726