Add member_role_id to saml_group_links

What does this MR do and why?

This adds the member_role_id column to the saml_group_links table.

This also extracts the common validations for member_role from the GroupSaml, Member and SamlGroupLink models to the MemberRoles::MemberRoleRelation concern.

Issue: #417201 (closed)

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