(Resubmitted) Metrics: Use a single source for the selected dashboard (Vuex getter)

What does this MR do?

Depends on: !31597 (merged)

Follow up from !31597 (comment 341476368)

Previously the currently selected dashboard was calculated on the fly by the dashboard component, but as other components needed this information, we added a getter (nullable) called selectedDashboard to calculate this information.

The selectedDashboard getter is used by the dashboard with this change.

Note: Also, the selected dashboard by default is not simply the first one, but the one marked default.

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Does this MR meet the acceptance criteria?

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Closes #214581 (closed)