Edit docs on how to get Ingress external IP

What does this MR do?

Edit docs on how to get Ingress external IP

This is in preparation for deprecation of GitLab-managed Ingress. This shows clearly that you can use a manually installed Ingress for Auto DevOps.

• Remove an old note for functionality that was removed in GitLab 12.0
• Removes some notes that were never true

Related issues

Related : &4280

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• Update the permissions table.
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• Add GitLab's version history note(s).
• Add/update the feature flag section.

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• Clear typos, like this is a typpo.
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