Add update and destroy API endpoints to ExternalApprovalRules

What does this MR do?

• Adds two new REST API endpoints. backend
  • DELETE /projects/:project_id/external_approval_rules/:id - Delete an external approval rule.
  • PUT /projects/:project_id/external_approval_rules/:id - Update an external approval rule.
• Adds appropriate documentation. Technical Writing

Does this MR meet the acceptance criteria?

Conformity

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• Style guides
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• Separation of EE specific content

Availability and Testing

• Review and add/update tests for this feature/bug. Consider all test levels. See the Test Planning Process.
• Tested in all supported browsers
• Informed Infrastructure department of a default or new setting change, if applicable per definition of done

Security

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• Label as security and @ mention @gitlab-com/gl-security/appsec
• The MR includes necessary changes to maintain consistency between UI, API, email, or other methods
• Security reports checked/validated by a reviewer from the AppSec team

Related to #267511 (closed)