Reduce resource contention on picking CI builds during `jobs/request` [RUN ALL RSPEC] [RUN AS-IF-FOSS]

What does this MR do?

Based on !55194 (merged). It will automatically be retargeted on master upon merge.

Introduce a temporary lock on a resource allowing us to quickly skip build from the queue instead of performing an expensive database optimistic lock status transition

This should reduce a rate of runners competing for the same resource, but still allowing them to recover right after.

Related to:

• #292047 (comment 517303891)

I wonder, how impact it will have on Redis calls. It should be pretty cheap.

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