Resolve "Skip fetching project members until assignees dropdown is open"

What does this MR do?

Currently, the assignees' widget is fetching issue participants and project members on the component mount, even if the user didn't open a dropdown. This may cause an unnecessary load on the server (i.e. for cases when the user won't open the assignees dropdown). In order to improve performance, we are skipping the query and only request data after opening the dropdown.

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Related to #331404 (closed)