Fix referrer option passed to Akismet client

What does this MR do?

Fix referrer option passed to Akismet client.

It wants 'referrer', not 'referer'.

Also improves exception handling so regressions such as these can be noticed and caught earlier.

See !52385 (comment 591568296) for context.

Screenshots (strongly suggested)

CAPTCHA is now working in dev again:

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