Switch `ApplicationRecord#safe_find_or_create_by` to use Rails 6 method
Rails 6 introduced create_or_find_by
(https://api.rubyonrails.org/classes/ActiveRecord/Relation.html#method-i-create_or_find_by),
which implements ApplicationRecord#safe_find_or_create_by
in a
slightly clearer way. Switch to this under the hood and update the
documentation to recommend using the Rails 6 method directly.
Edited by Stan Hu