Align front/backend Draft MR regexes

What does this MR do and why?

Over time, the frontend and backend regexes for detecting Draft MRs by parsing the title string have drifted. This commit aligns them not only with each other, but with our published documentation.

Relates to #341567 (closed) and #235986 (closed)

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Related to #341567 (closed)