Use default_enabled: yaml for usage_data increment_counter API

What does this MR do and why?

• Use default_enabled: yaml for increment_counter usage data API
• This allows having events tracked using Redis with usage data API in self-managed if any feature is set to deafault_enabbled: true

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Related to #350055 (closed)