Add section in Ref Arch docs around decisions

What does this MR do?

MR converts the Availability Components section of the Reference Architecture docs into a more streamlined How to decide what architecture to use section to give clearer guidance on the levers a user has to decide what RA to use with details on each.

Goal here is to make it clearer for the end user on the trade offs of each type and precent users from selecting an architecture too complex for their needs.

Related issues

Closes gitlab-org/quality/reference-architectures#160 (closed)

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More important since this contains a real-time generated diagram.

http://main-ee-98204.35.193.151.162.nip.io/ee/administration/reference_architectures/index.html#deciding-on-what-architecture-to-use