Enable sysctl optimizations for geo-postgresql

What does this MR do?

This adds the same sysctl optimizations that are enabled for regular postgresql installations, to also work for when using only geo-postgresql.

Please merge !5040 (merged) first as this is rebased against it.

Related issues

This was identified and extracted from the work done at !5040 (merged) #5959 (closed)

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